Author Lucky Tomaszek

broadstreet.zone(49071); Dear MKE SEX,I’ve recently met someone who I really connected with, but she lives out of state. We’re excited enough about each other to want to explore it further, but with the di...

broadstreet.zone(49071); Dear MKE SEX,My question is short, sweet, and to the point: What's the deal with cock rings? Not the vibrating ones—I get that. But the plain ones are a mystery to me. I see them w...

broadstreet.zone(49071); Dear MKE SEX,I have this recurring fantasy that’s pretty elaborate. I’m alone in a room when my partner sweeps in unexpectedly, grabs me, tosses me on the bed and makes me do whate...

broadstreet.zone(49071); Dear MKE SEX,I have a question about excessive vaginal discharge. I know vaginal dryness is an issue that many people struggle with, but what do you do when you have the opposite o...

broadstreet.zone(49071); Dear MKE SEX,I am a cigender woman in my forties. After separating from my former husband of fifteen years, I am starting to get back in touch with my sexuality, and in this proces...

broadstreet.zone(49071); Dear MKE SEX,I read all your columns so I know you've already answered a bunch of birth control questions. And yet, here I am with another. I'm burnt out on hormonal b.c. Copper IU...

As promised, here’s the second and final part of this short series on getting pregnant, not getting pregnant, and having sex while pregnant. (Part one is HERE.) These questions all came from a recent Ask the Se...

broadstreet.zone(49071); At a recent Ask the Sexpert event with college-aged folks, I got a whole slew of questions relating to getting pregnant, not getting pregnant, and sex during pregnancy. As a sexuality ...

broadstreet.zone(49071); Lucky Tomaszek is the education coordinator at The Tool Shed: An Erotic Boutique, Milwaukee’s only mission-driven, education-focused sex toy store. This week's topic: sploshing. Dear ...

broadstreet.zone(49071); Dear MKE SEX,My husband and I have been together for almost 20 years. We have a strong relationship and we still really like each other. (Not everyone can say that, hey?) We’re sti...

broadstreet.zone(49071); Earlier this month, I had my first (masked, distanced) in-person sex ed event since the beginning of the pandemic. (Side note: if 200 college freshmen can stay masked while attending a...

broadstreet.zone(49071); Dear MKE SEX,I had a complete hysterectomy eight years ago. They took everything out (uterus, ovaries, the whole thing) so I went into menopause immediately. And I got all the symp...

broadstreet.zone(49071); Dear MKE SEX,I’m pregnant and am very excited to be a mom for the first time. The other night, my partner and I were on a Zoom call with my partner’s family, and his brothers were ...

broadstreet.zone(49071); In the spring of 2016, The Tool Shed hosted adult performer and creator Jiz Lee for an event that included a public Q&A. During that event, an audience member stood and asked why c...

broadstreet.zone(49071); Dear MKE SEX,This pandemic just stretches on and on into eternity, doesn’t it? Sorry. That’s dramatic. It’s just that numbers are going up and people are still getting sick. Even k...

broadstreet.zone(49071); As a sexuality educator who works on the sales floor of a retail sex toy store, I’m asked a lot of questions about health, pleasure, and our products. Even after nine years at the Tool...

broadstreet.zone(49071); Dear MKE SEX,My best friend has a Magic Wand and she won’t shut up about it! I’ve only seen them in porn. I don’t know—they look outdated. I even think I saw one at my grandma’s ho...

broadstreet.zone(49071); Dear MKE SEX,I’m wondering if you can help me with an issue around pronoun etiquette. I host continuing education trainings in the healthcare field with participants from around th...

broadstreet.zone(49071); By Lucky Tomaszek and Ashe PalmerAs every queer, gay, and gender pioneer knows, COVID-19 cast its long shadow over our rainbow world. We skipped our annual Pride revelries last yea...

broadstreet.zone(49071); There's good news and bad news in the world of hard-to-treat gonorrhea. In July, 2017, I wrote a column about three cases of antibiotic-resistant gonorrhea. It must have made quite an ...