Author Lucky Tomaszek

MKE SEX: Getting ready for International Fisting Day

October 13, 2017

broadstreet.zone(49071); Dear MKE SEX, My latest partner has (quite literally) opened me up to fisting. First of all, I'd like to proclaim what a misunderstood and amazing sex act it is—definitely not as ag...

MKE SEX: Funky spunk

September 29, 2017

broadstreet.zone(49071); Dear MKE SEX, I have a new partner, things got hot, and we went there. Oral sex is my absolute fave, and I couldn't wait to get my mouth on him. (Don't worry—we got tested first.) I...

MKE SEX: To orgasm, or not to orgasm

September 15, 2017

broadstreet.zone(49071); Dear MKE SEX, I gave my bestie a ride to the club tonight, and on the way she started giving me a hard time about my sex life. Me and my boyfriend have sex a couple times a week. I ...

MKE SEX: Can your phone get better reception when it’s in someone’s vagina?

August 25, 2017

broadstreet.zone(49071); Dear MKE SEX, The other night I was making out with my girlfriend, and I put my phone on vibrate and put it in her virginia for a little extra pleasure. Well, her clit must have an...

MKE SEX: Rekindling the fire

August 11, 2017

broadstreet.zone(49071); Dear MKE SEX, When I met my boyfriend three years ago, the sex was hot. Smoking hot. Steaming hot. It was amazing and mind-altering. We had such a deep connection, and the sex felt ...

MKE SEX: Rope play, sexy scenes, and kink etiquette

July 29, 2017

broadstreet.zone(49071); Hello! After more than a year of reading your column, I finally have my own question for you. And it’s kink related! My partner and I live a long ways from any major metro area, and...

MKE SEX: Let’s talk about gonorrhea

July 14, 2017

broadstreet.zone(49071); STI UPDATE: Gonorrhea I want to be really clear right now: There is no shame in having an STI. None. Zero. It will happen to a lot of us during our lifetime, and that's okay. It's k...

MKE SEX: Let’s talk about May-December relationships

June 30, 2017

broadstreet.zone(49071); Dear MKE SEX, I need perspective on a relationship and I need to know how to explain to a know-it-all young adult that sometimes convention is correct. I have my sister's oldest ...

MKE SEX: The big “snap-back”

June 16, 2017

broadstreet.zone(49071); Dear MKE SEX, Last week, I got to play the part of sassy gay best friend at a bachelorette party. When they invited me, I just thought it would be a fun night, and I'd have some goo...

MKE SEX: Food for thought (and for sex)

May 26, 2017

broadstreet.zone(49071); Dear MKE SEX, Is it safe to use common food items (like long fruits or veggies) for sex? What about using things like honey, chocolate sauce, or caramel as a lube? Asking for a frie...

MKE SEX: Talking about consent, even when you don’t want to talk about consent

May 12, 2017

broadstreet.zone(49071); On a recent Monday night, I made my annual three-hour drive to teach a consent workshop at one of the UW schools. These events are my favorite part of my job. I believe that consent is...

MKE SEX: Let’s talk about condoms

April 14, 2017

broadstreet.zone(49071); In my most recent column, I focused on non-hormonal forms of birth control. In that column I said rather glibly that while some folks feel that condoms reduce sensation during sex, t...

MKE SEX: Let’s talk about birth control

March 24, 2017

broadstreet.zone(49071); Dear MKE SEX, I swear to god, I have tried every form of birth control out there and nothing works for me. The shot, the implant, the Mirena, the ring, the patch, almost every kind ...

MKE SEX: Reclaiming mama’s body

March 10, 2017

broadstreet.zone(49071); Dear MKE SEX, I had a wonderful breastfeeding relationship with my daughter. She nursed well into toddlerhood, and we weaned about six months ago. When we were weaning, I transition...

MKE SEX: Quickies, pt. 2

February 24, 2017

broadstreet.zone(49071); Last July, I wrote "Quickies," 10 questions answered in 25 words or less. The short answer format seemed to resonate with a lot of folks. In the seven months since then, I've collected...

MKE SEX: Not feelin’ it on Valentine’s Day

February 10, 2017

broadstreet.zone(49071); Dear MKE SEX, Ugh, this is hard for me to talk about, but here goes. I'll be eight weeks postpartum tomorrow. I had my postpartum doctor appointment today and everything was good. I...

MKE SEX: Overheard at the bar

January 27, 2017

broadstreet.zone(49071); OH at the bar last week: "...doesn't that sound like fun? We should try that." "No, it doesn't. I'm not really interested in that." "Why do you say 'no' to things all the time...

MKE SEX: What to do when your 13-year-old finds your vibrator

January 13, 2017

broadstreet.zone(49071); Dear MKE SEX, I was just watching TV and heard my Magic Wand from my bedroom. I guess I always knew my daughter (she's 13) would probably stumble across it eventually, seeing as how...

MKE SEX: Vexed about vibrators

December 30, 2016

broadstreet.zone(49071); Dear MKE SEX, For Christmas, I took my buddy's advice and got my girlfriend a vibrator. She's never had one before, so I just got something small. See, I'm on the road a lot for wor...

MKE SEX: Fretting about flirting

December 16, 2016

broadstreet.zone(49071); Dear MKE SEX, I'm a fairly cute, extremely friendly woman who enjoys the energy exchange of a good flirtation. This has really pissed off a few guys. Truth be told, it's ruined more...