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MKE SEX: Funky spunk

Lucky Tomaszek
broadstreet.zone(49071); Dear MKE SEX, I have a new partner, things got hot, and we went there. Oral sex is my absolute fave, and I couldn't wait to get my mouth on him. (Don't worry—we got tested first.) I...
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MKE SEX: To orgasm, or not to orgasm

Lucky Tomaszek
broadstreet.zone(49071); Dear MKE SEX, I gave my bestie a ride to the club tonight, and on the way she started giving me a hard time about my sex life. Me and my boyfriend have sex a couple times a week. I ...
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MKE SEX: Rekindling the fire

Lucky Tomaszek
broadstreet.zone(49071); Dear MKE SEX, When I met my boyfriend three years ago, the sex was hot. Smoking hot. Steaming hot. It was amazing and mind-altering. We had such a deep connection, and the sex felt ...
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MKE SEX: Let’s talk about gonorrhea

Lucky Tomaszek
broadstreet.zone(49071); STI UPDATE: Gonorrhea I want to be really clear right now: There is no shame in having an STI. None. Zero. It will happen to a lot of us during our lifetime, and that's okay. It's k...
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MKE SEX: The big “snap-back”

Lucky Tomaszek
broadstreet.zone(49071); Dear MKE SEX, Last week, I got to play the part of sassy gay best friend at a bachelorette party. When they invited me, I just thought it would be a fun night, and I'd have some goo...
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MKE SEX: Food for thought (and for sex)

Lucky Tomaszek
broadstreet.zone(49071); Dear MKE SEX, Is it safe to use common food items (like long fruits or veggies) for sex? What about using things like honey, chocolate sauce, or caramel as a lube? Asking for a frie...
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MKE SEX: Let’s talk about condoms

Lucky Tomaszek
broadstreet.zone(49071); In my most recent column, I focused on non-hormonal forms of birth control. In that column I said rather glibly that while some folks feel that condoms reduce sensation during sex, t...
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MKE SEX: Let’s talk about birth control

Lucky Tomaszek
broadstreet.zone(49071); Dear MKE SEX, I swear to god, I have tried every form of birth control out there and nothing works for me. The shot, the implant, the Mirena, the ring, the patch, almost every kind ...
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MKE SEX: Reclaiming mama’s body

Lucky Tomaszek
broadstreet.zone(49071); Dear MKE SEX, I had a wonderful breastfeeding relationship with my daughter. She nursed well into toddlerhood, and we weaned about six months ago. When we were weaning, I transition...
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MKE SEX: Quickies, pt. 2

Lucky Tomaszek
broadstreet.zone(49071); Last July, I wrote "Quickies," 10 questions answered in 25 words or less. The short answer format seemed to resonate with a lot of folks. In the seven months since then, I've collected...
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MKE SEX: Overheard at the bar

Lucky Tomaszek
broadstreet.zone(49071); OH at the bar last week: "...doesn't that sound like fun? We should try that." "No, it doesn't. I'm not really interested in that." "Why do you say 'no' to things all the time...
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MKE SEX: Vexed about vibrators

Lucky Tomaszek
broadstreet.zone(49071); Dear MKE SEX, For Christmas, I took my buddy's advice and got my girlfriend a vibrator. She's never had one before, so I just got something small. See, I'm on the road a lot for wor...
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MKE SEX: Fretting about flirting

Lucky Tomaszek
broadstreet.zone(49071); Dear MKE SEX, I'm a fairly cute, extremely friendly woman who enjoys the energy exchange of a good flirtation. This has really pissed off a few guys. Truth be told, it's ruined more...